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Dave Gerber

Apologies and the Counter-Intuitive

Some of the best answers are counter intuitive. An apology is a sign of strength in many cases, yet it’s done infrequently. If we want to up our game and be seen in a better light, we need to get more comfortable with apologizing when we make a mistake. Here are 15 ways apologizing demonstrates a sign of strength.


What are 20 ways apologizing is a show of strength?

  1. Honesty takes courage.

  2. Accountability demonstrates strength and honor.

  3. Vulnerability is a sign of courage and emotional strength.

  4. Taking responsibility

  5. Acknowledging mistakes

  6. Humility is a trait of strong and secure individuals.

  7. Self-awareness: to recognize when you have done something wrong and to apologize for it.

  8. Integrity: Apologizing is an act of integrity, which is a sign of strength and moral courage.

  9. Respect demonstrates a sign of maturity and emotional intelligence.

  10. Emotional intelligence is a sign of strength and development.

  11. Self-confidence: takes confidence to admit that you were wrong and apologize for it.

  12. Courage: Apologizing takes courage, especially when you feel uncomfortable or ashamed.

  13. Compassion is a sign of strength and empathy.

  14. Forgiveness: is a sign of strength and the ability to let go of resentments.

  15. Trustworthiness: Apologizing builds trust with others, which is a sign of strength and reliability.

  16. Empathy: you need to put yourself in the other person's shoes and to consider how they feel

  17. Leadership: Apologizing sets an example for others, which is a sign of strength and influence.

  18. Openness is a sign of strength and flexibility.

  19. Empowerment: you can take control of the situation and make things right, which is a sign of strength.

  20. Self-improvement: learn from mistakes and mature as a person, another sign of inner strength

There are other factors to consider when apologizing: timing, distinct words, who else is around, importance of the issue at hand, location of the apology can make a difference, body language, tone of voice and even more.

We all know how to apologize and with this strength we can hopefully secure the relationship and demonstrate humility. By doing so, we gain respect and their desire to continue the friendship.

Wishing you all the best!

Dave

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